Shared housing · interactive checklist

What to discuss before living together

Compatibility is not identical habits. It is honest expectations before a contract is signed or money changes hands.

Money and documents

Agree on the maximum monthly budget and each person’s deposit share.Make sure everyone sees the rental agreement before paying.Decide how utilities and unexpected costs will be divided.

Everyday rhythm

Discuss work schedules, sleep, and quiet time.Agree on cleaning, shared purchases, and kitchen use.Set expectations for guests, partners, and overnight stays.

Personal boundaries

Name the things that may be borrowed only with permission.Define private spaces and time alone.Discuss smoking, alcohol, pets, and strong scents.

Safety

Verify the address, the person offering the home, and her right to rent it.Share the address and agreement details with someone you trust.Keep your own access to the home and a clear move-out plan.